Like so many other things in life, giving and taking are both problematic if you take them to their uttermost illogical extreme. Sometimes you need to directly address one of your own needs, sometimes you have to spot your loved ones a clue what you want or need, and you give what you can and try to be sensitive to the wants and needs there too and not be completely oblivious to whatever clues come floating your way.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2006-04-20 11:33 pm (UTC)Mmmmmm, branes.
Like so many other things in life, giving and taking are both problematic if you take them to their uttermost illogical extreme. Sometimes you need to directly address one of your own needs, sometimes you have to spot your loved ones a clue what you want or need, and you give what you can and try to be sensitive to the wants and needs there too and not be completely oblivious to whatever clues come floating your way.